Relationships

It seemed Latino men were the workers that made it possible for the Hamptons to exist as a walled garden for White people.

So much is happening all at once. But we can talk about the issues we witness. Share stories. Raise awareness. That is the path to solidarity.

The topics may change, but the feelings remain the same. So don’t take the bait. Don’t retaliate. Distract. Say something ridiculous.

Yes, after three years together I’m still calling him my cohabitant. We’re not roommates. Not husband and wife.

I just needed different mental ingredients, something more whimsical than work, sweeter than the mood I make on my screens.

My Aunt Grace is 90 and takes care of my uncle. The notion of lifelong caregiving strikes me as something inherently female.

For a few hours on a Saturday afternoon we all choose to be in the same boat. Kindness and trust keep us safe.